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Something young men need to know about is the damage divorce can do to them. Marriage is really a contract with the state that says that if the marriage is dissolved the state can determine what to do with all of your assets, possessions, future earnings, where you can live, where you can’t live, where you can go, when you can see your children and much more. The state will decide in its best interest and the interest of the state’s players; lawyers, judges, phycologists, social workers and a whole host of others. The state will tend to side with the woman. You will be a slave. With the divorce rate above 50%, marriage is like gambling everything you might have worked for on the toss of a coin! Divorce is one of the main causes of bankruptcy and midlife male suicide. Chances are greater than 50% that you will get divorced. 80% that your wife will be the one to want the divorce, and not for something serious, but for something like “I don’t feel connected anymore” or “he doesn’t understand me”. 90% chance she will get custody of the kids, and you will see them every other weekend and one evening a week - which is 15% of the time. Statistics show that the serious problems children are likely to develop in a fatherless household is many times greater, as much as 90%, than from a household with both parents or even just the father; suicide, homelessness, drugs, pregnancy, crime, school drop out, etc. You will pay approximately 20% of your before tax income for child support for 1 child, depending on the laws of your state. Quite often, but not always, this occurs around the time your wife is going through menopause at age late 40s to early 50s, also usually being the time in your life when your earnings are the greatest and you have accumulated a lifetime of assets. You may be too late in your working life to recover huge losses. She may marry you for love, but she’ll divorce you for everything else: money, investments, retirement funds, houses, cars, furniture, kids, even the dog and cat! She may even feel she is entitled to your future earnings, and she may get it! All of this will be enforced at the point of a gun and jail if necessary. Forget about prenuptial agreements! Many judges through them out! What you say! They can’t do that! What are your options if it is thrown out by a judge? Your only recourse is to appeal, which takes many thousands of dollars and the appeals court will unlikely not rule in your favor. In many states reviewing civil domestic cases by an appeals court is discretionary, they may only review 5% or less of them! I have seen many prenuptial agreements ignored in divorce cases. Many members of the legal system are notoriously corrupt! Their goal is to make your wealth their wealth, the wealth of their associates or the wealth of the system! You come to know about these things when you are older and you see your friends go through it and possibly yourself. If this sounds too harsh, unbelievable or uncommon, talk to some older guys that have been through it and get their story. You will find out it is very common! It has ruined the lives of many men! YouTube “Men Marriage” to view a variety of material on this subject.
